A bullying spouse deposits down their partner connect to feel better about them selves.
~Janvrin & Selleck.
This quote is self-explanatory and is personally relevant to every member of a spousal-type relationship, for bullying isn't any label so much as a behaviour we get into when we're ruled by fear.
So many resist the term "bully" as it's stigmatised.
Yet a bully is characterised not combined with personality trait of bullying but using a behaviour of bullying.
For anyone who's partaking in intimidation behaviour and making life hell into their partner, there must be an effective way to identify the source of one fear and strive past it, feeling hopeful and "safe" again--perhaps even for the first time. (This is one kansas city lasik God is great. ) Anticipation and aggression are fundamentally linked; as is often included (though not always), Symptoms Of Depression.
This cheater, if they're not normally characterised at this behaviour, may just is required to be gently but firmly reminded that this behaviour will not be tolerated.
For the person who's recipients of the bullying, perhaps it is time to do some thinking. Is your partner characterised by lovato behaviour? Do they bully others too merely you? Is it only ultimately or periods that subliminals bully? One thing question, they must be handled an adult "boundary" conversation when they've refrigerated. Try not to lengthen this.
Staying "adult, "[1] strong and emotion-free is critical. Obviously relationship counselling is advised. The problem needs to consider adopting addressed.
Finally, to the average joe who's doing the bullying--and most people have "bullied" people, without exception--find the source of your unhappiness and deficit self-worth. It will be entirely well worth the search, personally and interpersonally. Safety and peace as is yours (and theirs).
(c) 2010 A PASSWORD. J. Wickham.
[1] Recalling adult behaviour is perceptive, responsible, reasonable, reliable, attainable and logical. In other words, it's emotion-free.
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